for it is the same with cages. we instill fear into our children to reform an act as we want them as we think they should act if they are loud noisy mean or rebellious they are 'wrong' or 'bad' what is wrong or bad? rape, murder, suffering... yes i would agree they are what i consider 'negative' things to experience but once you get past the 'experience' you see the lesson, there is no physical manifestation of the lesson except the experince so if it was always pleasant would be learn the lesson? no we would not pay attention to it like we need to in order to grow to learn to fulfill our purpose. that is why we have evil, bad, negative if you must. it is to balance the light the 'good' we feel. there is no good or bad, heaven & hell, right or left, they are only duality. polarized opposites that we must let go of to move beyond things. you can say to yourself, how can she say this, she doesnt know the pain of starvation, the thirst of dehydration, the malnurtition and disease that the planet harbors. i tell you now, i do. i know. and yes i even know the feeling of being raped. it not a pleasant feeling by no means, i would say that i cannot likin it to anything pleasant to anything that can be viewed positive as this has always been my outlook, however, in retrospect, everything that happens to us, even as an infant we predetermine before entering this incarnation and wanted to learn these lessons. so why should we set cages and trap ourselves inthis demension when we should really be allowing everyone to do anything and everything. im not saying we should all go kill someone, some of us need not DO anything to understand this concept i am speaking of, as it is within us all but some will say i dont understand this, and those must wait until they are 'activated' when it is time. if you were meant to wake up rightnow in this lifetime. then rest assured you are already doing so.